The people that make your life harder, will teach you the most valuable lessons
I strongly believe
that every team needs a leader who can create a drama free environment. It’s
his responsibility to make sure the people of his company get along. It’s a ton
of work to promote and instill a healthy culture within the workplace but it’s
worth it. Things will never be perfect but as long as you, as a manager, take
care of the problems as they occur and teach your team(s) to do the same, you
will be a good leader.
“That sounds good in theory, but the reality is different.”
“My boss doesn’t listen to me, always makes me do overtime, he doesn’t pay me enough and I can’t stand him.”
Does this sound like
you?
How about you?
Are you the perfect
employee who does his job in time, he’s never late, always respectful, is never
rude with those around him no matter how annoyed he is because things at home
aren’t great?
Ah… now we’re talking.
It’s ok, nobody’s
perfect. We can always do better.
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“Wait a minute, I
thought we were teaming up against my boss.”
Nope. That wasn’t the
point. We should all take a long hard look at ourselves before judging someone
else. The best thing we can do is to never judge people. Seeing people as they
are without expressing any bad opinions about them it opens your mind to get to
know the real them. It’s not an useful action and it also frees you from
negative thoughts.
Really think about it,
you had a chance in 400 trillion - after some scientists - to be born. Why on
earth would you have to deal with people that make your life harder?
It does put things in
perspective, doesn't it?
Plot twist, some people that make your life harder will teach you something useful, if you’re paying attention. They will teach you how to be more patient, understanding, how to spot the wrong people and stay away from them. You will also learn that you can’t help everyone and you can’t change most people. These will be extremely valuable lessons for life.
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