“How will I know if another job is the better choice?”

“How will I know if another job is the better choice?”

You don’t BUT it’s better to find another workplace than to be stuck, complacent, unhappy, stressed and frustrated in the current job. Furthermore, now you have some experience in dealing with a certain kind of people and you can deal with problems easier.

 Us people like to be comfortable, that’s how we are hardwired. Our brain doesn’t want and doesn’t like to do uncomfortable things. Changing jobs is definitely one of those uncomfortable things. Why is that though?

Because you’re used to it, even if it’s not great or even if it’s a toxic environment. Maybe you say you hate it but the truth is that you got used to the drama. Think about it, why else would you accept that job if you hate it? A part of you likes the negative emotions and find it hard to let it go. It’s ok, you’re not the only one.

 

The problem is that any toxic environment, even if it’s a job or a relationship, hurts you in a way or another. If it doesn’t directly affect you, it affects the people around you. I’m sure you know what I’m talking about. How many times did you come home and yelled at your partner/kid/parents even though they didn’t do anything to you? They just happened to be there and you got mad at them for no reason. After that you felt bad and had to apologize. This time it was ok but that other time, you weren’t forgiven that easily.

 Keep in mind that stress ads up and if you don’t find a way to release it or get rid of it, you’re going to suffer, mentally and physically. There’s only so much that a human can take. I strongly recommend that you get rid of the stress in your life ASAP.

Stress affects all systems of the body including the musculoskeletal, respiratory, cardiovascular, endocrine, gastrointestinal, nervous, and reproductive systems.

 
It’s no joke. Maybe you ignored it so far but it’s not good. Get rid of it so you can live better, longer and happier. I’ll remind you that you have one life and you shouldn’t live it in stress.

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